Can You Share a Room in Assisted Living? Pros, Cons, and Cost Savings
- Adina Tocai
- 5 days ago
- 3 min read

Assisted living is a smart option for many seniors—but for some families, the cost of a private room can be a barrier. One way to reduce expenses without giving up quality care? Shared or semi-private rooms.
This guide explains:
Whether room sharing is allowed
Who it’s right for
What the real cost savings look like
The emotional and social benefits (and drawbacks)
If you're looking to compare private vs shared pricing, try our Assisted Living Cost Calculators — they show clear price estimates based on room type and location.
Can Seniors Share a Room in Assisted Living?
Yes — many assisted living communities offer semi-private or shared suites. These setups may include:
Two beds in one large room
Divided sleeping areas with shared bathroom
Two small adjoining rooms with a shared entry
Shared spaces for couples, siblings, or two unrelated residents
Not all facilities offer shared units, so it's important to ask during your tour. At Close to Paradise, we provide both private and shared room options depending on availability and care needs.
Why Choose a Shared Room?
There are two big reasons families consider room sharing:
Lower monthly cost
Built-in companionship
But there are emotional, social, and logistical factors to weigh. Here’s a full look at the pros and cons.
Pros of Shared Rooms in Assisted Living
1. Lower Cost
Sharing a room can reduce monthly costs by 15–30%, depending on the facility.This makes assisted living more accessible for seniors who:
Have limited income
Don’t qualify for Medicaid
Want to preserve savings
For example, if a private suite costs $4,500/month, a shared room could be around $3,200–$3,800/month — saving families hundreds monthly.
Use this calculator to estimate costs near you:Compare Costs →
2. Companionship
Living with someone else can reduce feelings of loneliness, especially for seniors who:
Are social and like conversation
Miss their spouse or former routine
Struggle with isolation or boredom
Some residents thrive with a roommate—they eat together, attend activities as a pair, and offer support during tough days.
3. Ideal for Couples or Siblings
Shared rooms are also perfect for married couples or aging siblings who want to stay together.
Many facilities accommodate couples with custom care plans tailored to each person’s needs, even if one partner requires more assistance.
Real-Life Example: Two Residents, One Room, Shared Success
Alice (82) and Carol (79) met at a church group years ago but lost touch. They reunited after moving into a shared room at Close to Paradise.
Both were widowed, looking for affordable care, and had similar routines. Sharing gave them:
Lower monthly costs
Emotional support
Someone to talk to each night
Their families say both women are more engaged and active since the move. It’s not just about saving money—it’s about feeling at home.
Cons of Shared Rooms in Assisted Living
1. Less Privacy
Some seniors prefer their own space—especially when it comes to:
Sleeping habits
Phone calls with family
Personal care routines
Privacy screens and separate storage can help, but it’s not the same as a private suite.
2. Potential Personality Conflicts
Even with thoughtful roommate matching, differences can come up. Challenges include:
Noise sensitivity
Conflicting schedules
Hygiene habits
Most facilities try to match roommates based on lifestyle, but adjustments may be needed.
3. Limited Room Customization
Shared rooms may have stricter rules about:
Furniture choices
Decorations
TV or radio usage
You’ll still have space for personal touches—but with limits.
Tips for Making Room Sharing Work
Tour the room before committing
Ask how roommate matching is handled
Visit at different times of day (not just during “tour hours”)
Ask if room changes are allowed later, if needed
Bring familiar items (pillows, photos) to make the space feel personal
Is It Right for Your Loved One?
A shared room might be a smart fit if:
Your loved one enjoys conversation and social time
You’re trying to manage a fixed monthly budget
They’ve expressed anxiety about being alone
They're transitioning from living with family
Not sure where to start? You can talk with our care team or check this guide:Signs It’s Time to Consider Assisted Living
Shared Room vs Private Room: Side-by-Side Comparison
Feature | Shared Room | Private Room |
Monthly Cost | Lower | Higher |
Privacy | Limited | Full |
Social Interaction | High | Varies |
Best For | Budget-conscious, social | Private, routine-focused |
Couples/Siblings | Often available | May be separate rooms |
Final Thoughts
Sharing a room in assisted living isn’t just a way to save money—it can also offer comfort, companionship, and a smoother transition into care. It’s not for everyone, but for many seniors, it’s the right balance of affordability and support.
Before making a decision, compare pricing options using the Care Cost Calculators. You can see how a shared setup might fit your budget—without sacrificing quality care.